: Crazy, annoying ex, pay them back or not?


K-Nix
09-30-2007, 01:54 AM
Ha, this could either go in the lounge or birds and the bees, but whatever.

Alright, so I dated this girl last year, who at first seemed really great (we were friends on and off for years prior to), but turned out to be totally batshit insane. Long story short, she had so many issues I had no idea about and did not want to deal with.

I actually wanted to end things 2 months after we started going out, but me being a nice guy and all, I was afraid of her doing something drastic (aka suicide attempts). So I spent 8 months in THE worst relationship from hell. SHE finally ended things when I was "showing a lack of commitment". Which meant dropping my job and life here and moving to her city, regardless of my priorities. The day things ended was a fucking godsend, let me tell you.

Anyways, during that time she used my paypal account to receive funds because she didn't have her own. After all the bullshit she put me through, I don't feel like sending her the cash. It's $160, but I just don't want to give that bitch anymore satisfaction. Fuck, at first I thought I'd need to use it for a psychiatrist, it was that messy.

I know it's rightfully hers, but what do you think I should do about it?

-Send her the cash in full so she can leave me the fuck alone.
-Send her the cash in pennies, 50 cents/$1 at a time.
-Tell her I used it for the much needed therapy sessions after the shit she pulled.

Suggestions are welcome. The more degrading, the better.

CourtneyxCocainex
09-30-2007, 02:13 AM
woah,she sounds crazy but
I would prolly just tell her to fuckk that, and she wasn't getting that money back :) after what she did to you, hell no. anyways glad that's over for you.

MsFB
09-30-2007, 05:02 AM
Crazy or not, it's her money. Give it to her and be done with it.

tony241
09-30-2007, 06:00 AM
just give her the cash.. then she'll fuck off for good

rest
09-30-2007, 06:34 AM
If you want her out of your life, give her the money that belongs to her and be done with it. If you do something stupid or just don't give it to her at all, she will still be in your life because that money is rightfully hers and she will try to get it back.

tnrsxs
09-30-2007, 08:00 AM
To me - it sounds like you are the one still holding on. I bet she's not all that bad, and you simply had a bad break up. Now your being a drama queen about it all.

You need to give up the money and let her go. Its over.

rockatanski
09-30-2007, 08:18 AM
pay up foo

unless you want to keep dealing with her for the rest of your life...

SideWinder
09-30-2007, 11:54 AM
You should have broke things off earlier man. Yeah it may have flipped her out, but if youre both friends, there are ways to end it in a peaceful solution, esp after only 2 months (and it would have saved you from 8 months of a horrible relationship)

Anyways, if it's her money, then you owe it back to her regardless. As everyone else says, it may help you get her off your back for good.

Goodluck man

White_02
09-30-2007, 12:07 PM
I like the idea of the pennies :laughing:

W1lson
09-30-2007, 02:14 PM
give her the cash and never see her again

Joannah
10-01-2007, 10:14 AM
Just pay up sucka

Reckon
10-01-2007, 04:28 PM
I presume she knows about the cash? If so, send it to her and cut off all ties. Its really that simple.

If she doesn't...what she don't know about, she won't miss. Its true! :)

DJHonda84
10-01-2007, 08:57 PM
Pay up in full, and in normal denominations ($20 bills, not coins). If you gotta mail it, send a money order. That way she doesn't fuck you up by holding a check and cashing months later at an unpredictable time.

Also; if she had your PayPal password, change it.

PrZ
10-01-2007, 09:07 PM
nah man dont give the bitch none let her know she aint shit treat her like she treated you she dont deserve more just cuz she a girl

K-Nix
10-01-2007, 09:39 PM
Wow, I totally expected a lot more pranksters in the crowd. Guess I was off.

Maybe I should've asked "what's the best/worst way to send her the money?"

rest
10-01-2007, 09:48 PM
Wow, I totally expected a lot more pranksters in the crowd. Guess I was off.

Maybe I should've asked "what's the best/worst way to send her the money?"

The best way to send her the money? Man up and stop being a fucking little kid about it. It belongs to her so give it to her. A money order would probably be the best way so you can have a receipt for it.

?uestion
10-01-2007, 09:49 PM
box full of pennies.
























































encased in cement.

Phrost
10-07-2007, 04:02 PM
Cash it in smaller bills, and fill a plastic bag with said bills. Get a big piece of moist dog shit, proceed to insert shit into the middle of all the bills. Jack off in it first.

SEvoIX
10-07-2007, 04:09 PM
You stayed with her for 8 months cuz you're a nice guy and felt bad? Bullshit, you stayed with her cuz you're a pussy.....Give her the money and let it go.

DesiRSX
10-07-2007, 09:36 PM
its her cash, not urs...so give it to her i guess...

then again its ur paypal account:)

prj3ctm4yh3m
10-15-2007, 12:20 AM
you moved to her city FOR HER??? wha?

Parks
10-15-2007, 05:02 AM
you can't be serious.

killertofupanda
10-15-2007, 02:07 PM
dude, tell us more about her and what's wrong between you two. maybe you can resolve something?

you know, im surprised no one asked for pics yet.

9 Meter Peter
10-16-2007, 01:07 PM
Just pay her back. Its not even that much.

huevosrancheros
10-20-2007, 09:32 PM
Pay her back in pennies, that would be hilarious

hueman
10-20-2007, 09:40 PM
wow

you're a little bitch.

aozer
10-20-2007, 10:14 PM
pics of crazy chick?

gthugdelux
10-21-2007, 03:45 AM
You stayed with her for 8 months cuz you're a nice guy and felt bad? Bullshit, you stayed with her cuz you're a pussy.....Give her the money and let it go.

lol QFT

rick1024
10-21-2007, 05:23 AM
shit in an envelope and send that

basewhiteRSX
10-21-2007, 01:46 PM
To me - it sounds like you are the one still holding on. I bet she's not all that bad, and you simply had a bad break up. Now your being a drama queen about it all.

You need to give up the money and let her go. Its over.

x2 if she was so bad you would of just gave her the money asap but your still holding on by not givin it to her